We'll assume that you've read all the warnings through the manosphere against doing it. We'll assume that you've decided that yes, you're going to give it a go. You're an adult.
So. You need to look really hard at these girls and filter through them.
Fortunately, one of the commenters over on Reddit has come up with what looks to me to be a gem of a filter. From /r/MGTOW, the post is mostly about goldiggers:
Asari_Lover 8 points 9 hours ago
Pfft, I've got one. The answer I repetitively heard was drum roll A) Sex, B) I make you look good.
Edit: I found a great way to sort out female "friends" worth having around and ones who are not is asking them what they think a good woman contributes to a relationship. [Emphasis mine. - BPS] Most look as though they were asked to give a lecture on quantum physics.So. Ask her what she thinks a good woman contributes to a relationship.
I suppose that if nothing else, you'll get a few laughs from the looks on their faces. Hell, it might be worth asking your male friends as well.
I have met some funny, interesting women but they are as rare as hen's teeth.
ReplyDeleteI can think of a couple too, in my 50-odd years of life. Definitely hens teeth.
DeleteI don't understand why you would dislike Rollo for the voices of his commentariat, when his own opinions are not so different from yours (and he doesn't sell anything more expensive than two books under twenty bucks each):
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That's a very interesting link, Mindstorm.
DeleteRegarding Rollo, one of his posts came across as ragging on the MGTOW. I haven't read him since then. And yes, I do have his first book: The Rational Male. Got it when I was thinking that I'd go down the PUA track, where instead I've gone down the MGTOW one instead.
Keoni Galt has made me think. Now there is a man with a heart far bigger than mine.
DeleteOf course Rollo is going to talk shit about MGTOW; unlike us, he is invested in society being married and more specifically, he has a daughter he hopes to marry off... someday. Chances are pretty good she is gonna be a cock carousel riding addict until she graduates into being a cat lady. That's what Rollo fears.
DeleteI hadn't realized that Rollo had a daughter. Interesting, more skin in the game.
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