Even though she's being an utter cunt, you are still being
Stop the pandering, stop jumping through hoops for them, stop putting them up on a pedestal (still) as if she's worth the effort of fucking. At least some of the guys there seem to get it. Remember:
Never put your dick in crazy. (And they're all crazy.)
This is also reinforcing another fallacy of the PUA: the myth that finding a "decent woman" is possible among the habitual good-time-girls (aka sluts) in the party-scene. They would do better to acknowledge to (and among) themselves that:
- they are training themselves to be good-time-boys
- that this is only for a good time, nothing serious
- that it doesn't actually matter if the girl is left better or worse
- that the girls are already fucking broken
- that the girls are getting exactly what they want
- that they are actually dumpster-diving
- that they are cherry-picking for good looks among a general wasteland of shit
I don't deplore what they do - more power to them. What disturbs me is the self-deception and lies that goes along with the territory. When they're not being honest with themselves, when they're still putting her up on a pedestal, when they're taking a massive shit on their personal dignity - it simply can't be good for their personal mental state.
Nor the mental state of the entitled/crazy women. Seriously. When a man persists in chasing a crazy who has preemptively said "No" then he's validating both her shitty existence and shitty behavior. Instant narcissistic supply.
Cut that crazy cunt down to size and walk away. Remember: You Don't Have Time For This Crap.
Set yourself free from crazy - especially from begging crazy to let you stick your dick in her.