Divorce is Failure

From the woman's side:

You got divorced = you failed

You got divorced twice = you failed big-time

You got divorced 3+ times = you are an utter failure

From the man's side:

You got divorced = hope you learned something

You got divorced twice = didn't you get the memo first time?

You got divorced 3+ times = some people just don't fuckin' learn do they

Now look at the two sides from their own perspectives.

From the woman's side: any successfully-married woman is going to look down on any divorced woman. Similarly, divorced women look down on women who have been divorced more times than they have been. Social stigma is high. The more divorces you been through, the lower the social status in teh wimminz pecking-order.

From the man's side: it's more supportive and humorous. At least, until the 3+ divorce fuckups. Then it probably becomes a mix of disgust and pity, as in "get a fuckin' grip man".

So there's a big difference in same-sex attitudes towards divorce. For men, shit happens - until you're too damn stupid after about 3 shots. For women, instant pity and shame.

Because despite what the femicunts rabbit on about: for a woman, divorce is true failure at the one thing that really matters for women.