tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395564333682113597.post7173979378289292882..comments2024-03-12T11:27:58.144+13:00Comments on Black Poison Soul: Never Explain Anything To WomenBlack Poison Soulhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07378635809751908950noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395564333682113597.post-88400844743815886272015-03-20T21:57:01.933+13:002015-03-20T21:57:01.933+13:00Yeah, everything is seen in the light of how it af...Yeah, everything is seen in the light of how it affects her and how it makes her feel. So childish, so selfish, so narcissistic. Best to avoid it entirely, dodge that bullet proactively.<br /><br />If I had a live-in partner I would change nothing. Here's the reasoning:<br /><br />It's my life (and home) not hers, and I'm not changing to accommodate the sensibilities and preferences of a subnormal child. Simply: if I change for her, then she would take that as the green light to try and change me this way - and that way - and the other way. If I changed for her then I'd probably be weak enough to succumb to these further changes.<br /><br />So eventually in three-four years we end up back to pathetic under-her-thumb slave-man again - and married due to de-facto relationship/common marriage laws in New Zealand. Then frivorce once more because "he's changed, he's not the man I fell in love with". Cash and prizes.<br /><br />However, I don't see how this situation would apply to me. See, I don't intend to marry again. Since I don't intend to marry, there is no point to having a live-in partner at all. Therefore she'd never end up in my house for more than a short time. This means that it's better for me that I don't get involved with a woman for more than a year - certainly not bring her into my home and private life on an ongoing basis.<br /><br />I don't think that I'd do it even for the mythical NAWALT/Unicorn.Black Poison Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07378635809751908950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395564333682113597.post-1074169877546199482015-03-20T08:52:41.845+13:002015-03-20T08:52:41.845+13:00From an old reformed over explainer, this is a gre...From an old reformed over explainer, this is a great post.<br /><br />I look forward to your practical posts.<br /><br />It took me a long time to realize that explaining is a waste of time, because they don't care - well, actually, only about themselves.<br /><br />The more I explained, the more offense they took.<br /><br />Keep the practical MGTOW advice flowing - your blog is like that gathering of MGTOW men.<br /><br />BTW, it's a rhetorical question, but would you adjust anything for dealing with a live in partner? I don't think so myself, but I'd like to hear your view.<br /><br />Keep up the great work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395564333682113597.post-82837883739806758412015-03-19T14:27:26.325+13:002015-03-19T14:27:26.325+13:00Between men, explaining is a productive thing. Men...Between men, explaining is a productive thing. Men to women - not so much. It simply becomes ammunition for her, a handle on you. Most women will look at <i>everything</i> in the worst possible light, deliberately misconstruing things in their desire to fuel the drama that is their life.<br /><br />You provide an unfortunate example with your mobile hairdresser. In effect you fed her desire for drama - as you said, it created problems (her mysterious disappearance). Hopefully it doesn't come back to really bite you hard.<br /><br />There are times that we men need to be slippery as teflon. Not giving her any information helps.Black Poison Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07378635809751908950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395564333682113597.post-59268770528995165152015-03-19T09:21:55.750+13:002015-03-19T09:21:55.750+13:00Nice. Great main point.
I think men explain becau...Nice. Great main point.<br /><br />I think men explain because we like to, one.<br /><br />Two, we think it will somehow make things better. In man fantasy land we think we will explain, the woman will UNDERSTAND (hahahah), and things will work out better.<br /><br />It is a hard habit to break. Recently I explained what I was up to with my plans for my appearance to get girls with minimal effort to my mobile hairdresser. It was straightforward girl-getting but she's mysteriously gone now. <br /><br />Anytime you explain they latch onto something, no matter how insane, to generate problems.<br /><br />If there is a rulebook for getting anything reasonable from these nutcases then Don't Explain is one of the main rules.<br />Onehttp://thoughtsfromone.com/noreply@blogger.com